the hard conversations
In the spirit of decluttering the mind, I have pushed myself to initiate a couple of hard conversations lately. I felt weight lift off my shoulders knowing that I tried my hardest more than once and that the ball is not in my court. I have also been relieved of guilt and sadness that I actually didn’t need to feel (Ah, how well we women do guilt!). It feels freeing to try make a relationship the best it can be, or to realise that it’s through no fault of my own that it will never strengthen, or to learn of wasted emotions based on incorrect assumptions that can now be let go. I hope you can muster the courage to have a difficult conversation and clear out more mind clutter.